It really is no exaggeration to say that LOA changed my life. In my head and my heart, it’s more like reality creation. I’ll call it The Law on this site because that’s what it’s commonly called and how I came to it in the first place.
I have always been into it in some way, a little non-comital way I suppose you’d say. More of a ‘well it would be nice if it were real, but it can’t be can it? can it?? Like everyone else at the time, I was fascinated by The Secret and believed there was something in it, but again, I didn’t have the time or the imagination to actually do much about that fascination. So it remained just that. The stuff of dreams.
Open up Your Mind to There Being More
That’s really what happened. My son started talking to me about just getting this he wanted, like it was this simple thing that he assumed everyone could do. ‘It’s The Law of Attraction’ he said. I’d never taken note of the actual term. I just though it was wishful thinking…look where that got me!
We talked for ages about it and he said ‘well that if you just give it a go?’ ‘Why the hell not?’ I thought. I wasn’t in the very best place at the time so it seemed like a bit of fun to get me out of the slump I was in. We tried manifesting all kinds of small things, and each and every one came to be! I did the feather thing and I kid you not, the same afternoon a feather floated onto the dashboard of my convertible just as I was about the park it. I still wasn’t totally convinced, but it made me smile anyway.
This carried on for a few months, we’d make more and more stuff come into being until eventually I realised I had zero doubt left. It was all gone. WOW, now it was time for the BIG things. And that’s where it all kicked off. I made a conscious effort about 18 months ago, to throw myself full on into this new reality thing. I got the car I wanted about two weeks later, a new mobile phone for free, yes really! All of our staff agreed to go freelance, my husband decided to work from home and not with me!!! (this as it turns out, has been the biggest and happiest change for me) I wrote a book, I got an editor, I was published, I have a lovely new office for which I pay the same rent as the not so lovely office I had before, I have the best guy to share the rent with, I write for other people too, I write articles for other blogs…..bla, bla, bla,…..the list goes on and on. This is not me showing off and saying ‘hey look what I have’ not at all. This is me saying, ‘look, you too can have whatever you want’
How to Manifest Without Over-Thinking
Don’t get hung up on what you want. I know you really, really want it, like it’s the most important thing and you just can’t forget about it. DON’T forget about it. Forget all of the ‘letting go’ stuff you hear about all of the time. You do not have to let go. You just have to accept The NOW. That’s really what letting go means to me. This is just your NOW chapter. The next one is there, you just haven’t finished reading this one yet!
It’s All About Love
It really is. Love for yourself and love for other people. No hating on anyone ever! That has to be your new rule. It’s for YOU not for them. Forgiveness is paramount. I always assume that nobody is out to hurt me. They are just trying to live their lives and sometimes they stuff up and hurt me in the process of getting what they want and doing that in a way that means they disregard my feelings. Actually I no longer find myself hurting from other people’s actions because, well, what’s the point? It would only serve me negatively to do so. I choose to be kind and to be the best version of me that I can be. I never want something to the point of hurting someone else in order to get it. I always say to myself ‘in the best way possible, where everyone is happy’
I intend to write a post a week on manifestation and how to live your best life. I get so many emails on the subject and I’m finding that more and more people I know are coming to the conclusion that life is not choreographed by someone or something outside of US.